Grandmother And Her Faith
“…When I call to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first in your grandmother Lois, and your mother Eunice, and I am persuaded is in you also.”–2nd Timothy 1:5
I know we were expecting to continue our look at the Creation this morning, but God had other plans. Yesterday morning (Friday), at the age of 96, my grandmother passed away. It has been a day we have both dreaded and prayed for. No one wants to lose a loved one, but after 96 years, she was longing to be with the Lord. More than anything the past couple of years, she wanted to go Home. Yesterday, God finally answered her prayer. Are we sad? Yes, to an extent. Are we going to miss her? Only for a little while. She leaves behind three children, eight grandchildren, thirteen great-grandchildren, and a few great-great-children. She also leaves brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and a host of friends.
More than that, however, she leaves behind the example of how we should live. She showed each of us what it means to live for, and trust in, God. At one time or another, each of us has been lifted up in her prayers. In sorrow, we still know we need to thank God for blessing us with such a wonderful woman.
Thursday, most of the family who lived near paid her a final visit, not because we knew it was going to be the final time, but because we knew it was getting close. We each got to sit at her bedside and hold her hand and talk to her a bit. As I held her hand, I tried to bring a smile to her face, but her suffering wouldn’t allow it. When I told her I loved her, she tried to respond—she didn’t have to, of course, we knew she did. I joked about being her favorite grandchild, and it is true, I am. I’m her favorite because I am me; just as my cousins are her favorites because they are her grandchildren as well.
When I got the news of her passing, I knew today’s post was going to be different since 2nd Timothy 1:5 was the first thing I thought of. In Paul’s 2nd letter to Timothy, he speaks of the young man’s faith. It was the same faith he saw in Timothy’s mother and grandmother. Everyone who knew my grandmother, knew of her faith; I hope they see that same faith in me. In truth, she is part of the reason this blog exists. Had it not been for the example of her and my own mother, I would not have the faith I do.
Friday morning, as we awaited the arrival of the coroner, I got to kiss her forehead and say goodbye. When they arrived, they asked the family to step out of the room while they prepared to carry her out. One of the coroners asked if we preferred her face to be covered or uncovered when they took her out. I told him it didn’t matter,since all they had was the shell; her soul had gone on and her love remained behind. Those are the important things.
If you have someone of great faith in your family, strive to emulate that faith. There are few compliments greater than having your faith compared to someone such as that.
Until we meet again in the Presence Of God, my sweet Granny.